“Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isn’t freely given by another person it isn’t worth having.”— Unknown

A little early maybe, but hey, it couldn’t be more ‘Chistmassy’ where I am right now, so! Thank you all for the support those past few months, please have a Merry Little ChristMass, (or whichever holiday you happen to celebrate) full of love and joy and a fantastic Happy New Year~! Cheers~ <3
Good news is, you’ve come a long way.
Bad news is, you went the wrong way.
The roads are empty,
No hand to hold.
Maybe I will just walk alone,
And freeze in this cold.
(Source: thezodiaccity.com, via zodiaccity)
(via psych-facts)
Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, ‘It might have been.
(Because oh my god, it’s so hard, and everyone’s all like stop feeling so bad about yourself and it’s like how???)
- Be naked. A lot. Sleep naked. Have sex naked. Eat cereal naked. (Or naked and wrapped in a sheet. Favorite thing.)
- Follow beautiful, confident, (un-photoshopped) body-positive babes on the Internet. Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure. Exposure is key. You’re not going to get it if you don’t seek it out, because the media sucks and wants us to feel like shit about ourselves so they can take our money. (Some hashtags to follow: #effyourbeautystandards #bootyrevolution #blackisbeautiful #transisbeautiful #wheelchairlife #fatkini #fatshion)
- Lingerie. Next best thing to being naked.
- Self care, babe. Different for everyone. (Me? Showers, books, shaving my legs, nature walks, dark lipstick, good playlists, clean rooms, candles, sexy time.)
- Get ready in your underwear. Boobs = happiness.
- Self portraits. Be pro-selfie. Take a million selfies. Take sexy selfies. Take no makeup selfies. Take bad angle silly selfies. Take artsy tripod selfies. Take everything-is-on-point selfies. You’re gorgeous; document your gorgeousness. You don’t even need to post them.
- Stop with the self deprecationnnnn. Pleeeeaseeee. It’s hard to control your thoughts love, I know, but you can control what you say. NEVER insult yourself out loud. Dare I say compliment yourself out loud? (And if you can, do your best to try to body-positive-ify your thoughts too.)
- Sex (including solo sexy time), wine, and chocolate. In that order.
- Share the body love. Compliment your girlfriends. Cultivate a nonjudgemental, supportive, lift-each-other-up “we’re so cute” friend group. Everyone’s insecure. Compliment your besties. And strangers, too. Be that person that makes everyone feel good about themselves when they’re around.
Good luck gorgeous. It’s a battle. We gotta unlearn all this societal bullshit.
Reblogging cuz this is vital. Especially the point on self-deprecation. Stop that shit now. It is a glamour-don’t, a welcome sign for fuck ass ppl.
(via giggle)
These flower charms pendant necklace are the perfect gift for family, friends or your lover.
You guys can use the discount code “INTROVERT” at check out to get 10% off.
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these are great gift ideas
I’d love one of these in white or silver with whatever color flowers
I bought these for two of my friends and they loved them
(via psych-facts)